Saturday, January 2, 2010

Lets take a trip to Chicago!

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Be prepared. THIS IS A LOOOONNG POST : )

This year we decided we would take a winter family vacation to Chicago. We have both always wanted to visit the city, but we were either saving to adopt/had a new baby or the summer plans to travel just didn't work out. But the way this calendar year fell Adam would get more time off than usual, so we ran with the winter vacation idea.
We asked for all our Christmas gifts to be "Chicago or Bust" themed. (Warm clothes, tires, gas cards, car games, etc.) The best part was being able to add-in spending time with family and friends along the way. We began our adventure on December 26th through January 2nd.

Day 1: Left the Tulsa snowstorm behind. It was a bit sad to leave not celebrating Christmas with our family, but Chicago or Bust was the theme so we pushed ahead. It took us TWO hours just to get out of Tulsa, but thankfully we were safe and ready to push on to Springfield.
My cousins, Hannah and Jansen, live in Springfield and that was a perfect place to stop. We hung out with them, ate lunch and played for a bit. Then back in the car as we were heading to St. Louis to spend the night.
All my dad's side lives in St. Louis and were getting together to have Christmas left-overs. We pulled up to my family's house and we're able to spend quality time with all my aunts, uncles and cousins. We spent the night with my cousin and his wife (thanks so much!).
The kids enjoyed playing the family piano. Aunt Debbie chased the kids around with endless energy. They loved their Pez dispensers and extra sweet treats after dinner.
Day 2: We woke up and headed for Chicago. Both days were supposed to be 6 hour car rides, but with the snow and stops, both days were 8 hour rides. They did awesome on the way there (note- on the way there) and we were all excited to arrive at our hotel.
My friend works for Paramount Productions and got us a sweet family and friends deal at the Hilton's Palmer Hotel. We are totally a Holiday Inn Express type family and although we missed the free Internet and free breakfast, the ohlala of the hotel was a fun experience.
When we walked out of the hotel we were directly in the heart of Chicago...
One of the best C or B gifts we received was our stroller cover. We used it everyday and we saw that most people there used them with their strollers. It blocked the wind and snow flurries and after the initial weirdness of having it over them, they loved it. This day was exhausting to say the least so we ordered in Chicago style pizza from Giordano's, watched a movie and went to bed.
Day 3: We started off each morning at the same Corner Bakery. And yes, as creatures of habit, we sat at the same table (to be able to watch the cityfolk) and for the most part had the same breakfast. It was a great time to prepare for the long day ahead of us.
We walked through the streets and enjoyed all the sky rise buildings. This is one of my favorite pics- I love this old Chicago sign. We then hailed a taxi and headed on with our day. I realized that the whole flagging the taxi, getting in, telling someone where to take you and arriving was awesome. I did everything but pay the man and Adam let me enjoy my taxi experiences. I also loved not having to put the kids in carseats. I have no idea why they allow this, but it was very Vietnamish to have them on our laps. Now only if it was on a motorbike it would be authentic and we would surely be jailed.
We were dropped off at The Children's Museum of Chicago to meet up with the Cartwright family! They live on the outskirts of Chicago and drove in to spend the morning with us. Our families met after we both accepted referrals of little boys in Vietnam. Not only did they share the same birth province, but they shared a room as well (along with Levi who we see later!). It was wonderful (to say the least) to meet up with this precious family. Our boys are only two days apart in age and are so much like!
The very first meeting. HUGS for everyone!
The Museum was great... they were firemen, played in forts, went fishing, created art, bathed babydolls, dug dinosaur bones and built pipes in waterland.
Before heading to lunch Avi Joy made a Chicago dog. We ate lunch with the Cartwright's at Bubba Gump Shrimp then said our goodbyes to them.
We hopped into a taxi again and headed over to the History Museum. Monday's are free so we could not miss the opportunity. You may be thinking how did the kids stay awake?? Well Avi Joy "rested" in the front of the stroller and Nehemiah went in the carrier (borrowed from the Homan family) and fell right asleep. This was our routine each day and worked our PERFECT! Our favorite part at the museum were the belongings of Abraham Lincoln. Like his coat and you know a little thing called the Declaration of Independence. We headed back to the hotel for dinner, a movie and bed!
Day 4: We met the Elyse family at The Field Museum bright and early in the morning. We actually live in the same city, but they were in Chicago on business and stayed to play! My friend Heather and I met many moons ago because one of her foster children was in my class at school. We were instant soul sisters who had a heart for adoption. She has since adopted 5 more children (to the two she already had) and is now a proud mama of seven. (All through OK state.) She is quite amazing to say the least. She founded Dream Again Foundation, is a writer and has several books about to come out. But most of all she is fully and totally reliant on Jesus and He just seeps out of her. She treated our whole day in Chicago and we were very grateful. Our crew...
Adam's favorite exhibit at the museum were the Tsavo Lions. They hunted down and killed over 150 people in Africa in 1898. They stored their bones as trophies, Adam didn't want me to forget that... check out the movie Ghost in the darkness.
The museum offered a gorgeous view of the city!!!
My favorite (and I am talking of the whole Chicago trip here) was the third floor of the Field Museum. Dinosaurs were everywhere. Amazing. Huge. Awesome. The exhibit took you on a journey through "time." From the worldly perspective of Evolution of course. BUT even then it was SO clear that their is a Creator. I loved it. I feel like watching Jurassic Park right now!
We grabbed the famous Chicago dogs for lunch, then Heather and I dropped off our kids at the hotel for naps. We then escaped for a two hour mommy retreat. We went to Renew Spa where we both had massages. It was THE BEST massage I have ever had! AND the greatest thing was that she said hers was the best ever as well.
We said goodbye to their family and headed for an evening out. We went to dinner at Hot Wok Cool Sushi, had to hit one sushi house for Adam, then to Millennium Park. We saw the Cloud Gate, otherwise known as "The Bean" and watched the Zamboni machine prepare the ice for the rink.
Day 5: Our last day in Chicago we walked to The Art Institute. We saw tons of famous painting by Monet, Degas, Renoir and Seurat, just to name a few. Simply amazing, seriously. It reminds me that people are capable of so much more. They used to spend their time, you know, like creating! We now watch t.v., blog and go out for entertainment. It kinda makes me feel sad, yet inspired.
Nehemiah took his morning nap in the sling and we spent about 2 hours looking at all the fine art. It was a confusing building to get around and after days of walking mama finally broke. I could NOT get on one more elevator and look at one more map. I did enjoy it, but had to get on to some chocolate. Like now.
We hit our final spot on our Chicago must-do list. The Ghirardelli shop. We had the sinfully good sea salt hot chocolate. It was beyond amazing, my mouth just watered thinking about it. Their smooth chocolate topped with whipped cream and sea salt. If you have never had that combo, its out there these days, a perfect pairing. Adam and the kids shared some ice cream with hot fudge. It was the prefect way to end our time in Chicago.
Too bad parents and kids couldn't swap at this moment. We were pretty tapped! We headed on a three hour trip west to see our good friends.
Our time in Chicago was great. Not too cold and I knew everything we were going to do before we got there. We have a small regrets list of things we didn't get to do...
- Ice skating at Millennium Park: We had planned to do it, but the line was up to an hour and a half wait and it was starting to snow flurry. Avi Joy cried, but we pinky promised I would take her once we got home. I am looking forward to it, Adam not so much, that boy cannot skate.
- Skydeck at Willis Tower: It was planned at the end of the day and by the time we got there, again it was an hour wait and they told us we had to stay up there for 25 minutes. My anxiety did a backflip and I just could not do it. It was like the hell I went through up in the St. Louis arch. Sounds cool until you are up there. Hopefully I will grow-up in this area and be brave.
- Riding all the public transportation: We wanted to experience the bus, subway, train and the elevated trains, but everything we had planned was in the city near our hotel. It was quicker and about the same price to take a taxi ride. Adam thought about going out one night to take an El around the city, I reminded him that if had chosen a different wife that might of happened.
- Wrigley Field: We wanted to go on a tour, to the gift shop and even heard the public could ice skate on the field, but everything opened Jan 4th. We were a few days short of this experience.

We drove out to see Tracy, her finance Bret and two kiddos Rachel and Levi. We also met because we accepted referrals of two precious boys who shared a room. We were close to traveling to VN together, but God had other plans. I am so thankful to maintain relationships with other families whose children were born in the same provinces as my son and daughter.
As we were heading out of the city towards her house all I could see was snow and farms. I am a mid-city girl and was shocked at that much vastness. Adam comforted me when he said, "Look, we hit a town, there is a Dollar General."
The children meet again. That evening was filled with laughter, a homemade meal and sharing stories. And then yes, everyone headed to bed early!
Day 6: Rachel (16) offered to babysit kids and let Bret/Tracy and us go on a date. They took us to a nearby town called Galena. Hometown of President Grant and the town has stayed in the 1850's. The architecture was gorgeous and the best word I can come up with to describe the town is quaint. Adam picked out One Eleven on Main for us to eat and it was divine. We all enjoyed our drive through the country, a wonderful meal and adult conversation.
Rachel and I enjoyed playing dress-up for her New Year's Eve party with local youth group. I got to do her hair, make-up and be her official stylist. This was a highlight for me. LOVED IT! I can think of several callings I have missed in life, one I think I could have been was a personal stylist. Taking phone calls, booking events, doing hair, etc. Good news is that I will have teenagers soon enough and I'm pretty sure I will get to use this calling- ha!
Day 7: We hugged our friends goodbye (which bytheway we did not get even one picture of us together!) and headed to Kansas City. We ate some good ol' Kansas City BBQ at Jack Stack's and headed for our hotel. You may be like enough with the food already. Sorry, food is part of the vacation and we are total foodies!
We could have pushed through and went home, but like I said earlier, the way there the kids did great, the way back was rough. Avi Joy is the perfect traveler. I can hand her an activity (dolls, stickers, books, movie) and she is happy. Nehemiah is a different story. Just the worst traveler, poor kid. He is uncomfortable, hates playing and throws everything down, does not watch movies at all and gets carsick. Soooo, we did the best we could. We needed some run around time and a good nights sleep before we headed home.

Day 8: Great vacation, but there is no place like home. And we celebrated Christmas with family!

My last two pics (phewh) are just ones for fun.
This Chicago church made me laugh out loud: The Moody Church. Mood Issues Anyone?? This church can help. After looking through the website, it actually looks pretty cool.
My little Cleopatra at The Field Museum. They had a replica of a pyramid, full of mummies, scrolls in hieroglyphics, bowls and jewelry. But she was the cutest thing there.
Thank you to all our family that helped make this trip possible. We loved being able to visit Chicago, see our family, spend time with friends and as with all trips, through the highs and lows, we made memories!
Blessings,
The Perryman Family

Friday, December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas!
As most have heard we were snowed in for Christmas. Our usual family visits were canceled. It was the first time in Adam's life that he was not with his parents at his grandparents house on Christmas Day. WILD! My Christmases were different every year as both my mom and dad's sides live out of state. We did end up getting to see my mom, step-dad and sis in the afternoon. It was nice to have them be able to get out and all of us exchange gifts with one another. (Will post pics of this along with other family events once they are rescheduled.)

This was also Nehemiah's first Christmas in his forever family. Last year at this time we were packing up to head to Vietnam. We left on December 30 and spent New Years Eve over the ocean.

Avi Joy was up early and ready to open presents! We ate cereal and Jesus' birthday cake for breakfast then waited for the boys to wake up. We gave the kids their one special gift first. Avi Joy got a Cinderella doll.
Then we opened presents from my dad that he sent from Atlanta. The kids loved their new toys, socks and games.
The pack of sunglasses were the day's favorite gift for both kids.
Then we bundled up the kids and headed outside. Our backyard is protected from the wind and we had the best time playing in the snow.
Some areas of the yard were only about a foot or so but other areas were up around 3+ feet.
I was SO proud of Avi Joy... she usually stays away from physical activities (more into crafts and reading) but she played in the snow twice and had a ball. She "swam" across the backyard and actually enjoyed getting stuck in the deep snow.
Nehemiah on the other hand... not so much.
Adam found his corner. He ran across the yard and swandived into this pile of snow. Obviously this kind of snow is rare around here. It was the highlight of my day (along with three more pieces of cake throughout the day).
We also made perfect snow angels!
Our prayer is that God and His angels protect us as we actually try to venture out tomorrow. We have been inside for 3 days now (I have not even changed p.j.'s!) so we are ready for a little fresh air. Not so fresh that we are stuck on the side of the road though!

As our day came to an end we turned off the fire- which had been on all day, opened the last Advent box and read the Christmas story from Luke chapter 2 from the Bible. We all love eggnog, so we sipped on that until it was time for bed. Everyone is winding down and I am off to rest from resting. How can too much downtime be exhausting?

Peace On Earth!
The Perryman's

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Merry Christmas Eve!

We had all kinds of big plans tonight... heading to church then our annual family CE Party, but because of the weather all things were canceled. Including Christmas Day at the grandparents with family!
Here is our backyard covered in beautiful snow. (Only pretty because I don't have to be out in it!)
We were able to go to the Homan's this week and make cookies. We accidentally left the flour out and the girls went a little crazy! (she got some great pics)
Then all 3 kids went wild with the sprinkles. Thank you HH for having us over and for cleaning up the sprinkles... no doubt you are still finding them around the house.
My favorite shot of the week. I served the kids breakfast, then went back to grab my own... in that time Mr. Cool had put his shades on. KIDS! So funny.
The Advent box is going well. One day left!
Today we baked Jesus a birthday cake. From scratch and OMW is it gooooood!
Since we are in the house all day here are some things we did... Flew both kids...
Love both their total fear/fun faces.
We have a new tradition that the kids open a Christmas Eve gift. It is new p.j.'s. Brother's set has a lion on one and a monkey on the other.
Avi Joy's has cute animals on it with JOY at the bottom and the other set has snowflakes on them. Very appropriate.
Our last project was to paint the kids silhouette's. I have been wanting to do this for a while and there was no better time than now. Gotta love a husband who will go along with all my artsy antics. We took a flashlight into the bathroom, held the kids still and I drew their profile on a sheet of paper. I cut it out, traced it on another piece of paper, then painted it in black.
Avi Joy is on the left and Nehemiah is on the right. Not totally perfect, but a great project for a snowy day that is for sure!
We closed out the evening with Avi Joy's second "real" movie of the holiday season. We have not even watched cartoon movies (just the normal Kai-Lan, Little People, Wiggles, Dora shows) so this has been fun for her. A movie night with pop-corn. We have always been super picky about what and how much t.v. she watches, but in the last week we have really let loose. Her first movie was Elf and now she is watching Night at the Museum with her daddy.


"Who should not revere You, O King of the nations? This is Your due. Among all the wise men of the nations and in all their kingdoms, there is no-one like You." Jeremiah 10:7

The Perryman Family
(Happy to be together, sad to not see our family for Christmas!)

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Going to be sent!

We were able to take pictures of the Butter Family last week. Avi Joy asked me yesterday why she only had two cousins. We talked all about it and she said she wished she had more. Then she said, "You know, Alicia has a lot of kids, maybe they can be my cousins..." So Alicia, your four now have some new cousins!
This is my funny of the week...
I sent out Christmas cards and let the kids play with the large sticker that comes on the stamp sheet. The next morning Nehemiah woke up with one on his back. Avi Joy came running in yelling, "Brother is going to be SENT! Where mom, where?"
Our Advent box each night is going great. We tasted and saw that the Lord is good by building a gingerbread house...
SO heart these upclose pics Adam took.
She really loves making crafts and doing projects.
Avi Joy had her first Christmas Pagent at school. It was adorable- enjoy the video!


We were blessed to babysit the Jones boys as they prepare for Africa. Hudson and Joy Joy danced around like a Prince and Princess. Enjoy, yes another video! More on the Jones' in Africa on InternationalBlend.

And- this was a big week- she had her mini-recital at dance. They were Christmas mice. I know at least my family will still watch... enjoy yet another video! : )




Enjoy your week. Looking forward to posting Christmas pictures soon!
"And He will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father and the Prince of Peace." Isaiah 9:6
The Perrymans

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Getting a staff infection...

OCTOBER, NOVEMBER, and FAMILY PICTURES
ADVENT CALENDAR part ONE and TWO

Well the good kind- not the real staph, but STAFF!
ADOPTION NEWS:
TODAY is the first time our family will be "staffed" with DHS.
This means that all the case workers will have a staff meeting with all the children's case workers. This staffing happens once a month and today is the day!

They will talk about all the children that are up for adoption and review all the homestudies of families who are ready to adopt. [insert us here-yeah]
We are fully ready to adopt and are hoping to be matched with a child.
In reality, this may not be the month when a child who matches our homestudy will be available. [insert- or the child God has for us is not available as of yet- keep waiting...]

Actually, as disheartening as this sounds, DHS states, "you are never guaranteed a match."
We are NOT believing this for our family. We are in prayer and hope that a child will come to our family sooner than later. We did have a moment where we were like, "NEVER??? Well, should we seek other options to build our family??" But that "knowing" that comes from our Lord was still there and we knew we were exactly where we are supposed to be.

We have a few things in our favor. [insert again- HA! Favor could mean to still wait!] We are open to multi-ethnicity and older children. We started out with age 5-6, but now we are open to 5 and up. We will see where this wild ride takes us.

We have pulled out our winter attire as it is now in the 30's everyday. I took a lot of pictures of Avi Joy in her cute hat, she was on a roll: dancing, sticking our her tongue and making many cheese faces. But this seemed to catch her personality the best- she was telling me a fully animated story.
Brothers turn. He likes hats, he could wear them everyday if I let him.
My two artists painting at the kitchen table.
This picture is not doing justice to the cuteness of this tee-shirt. I bought it in NY after my aunt and uncles wedding. It says GI JOE and has an army man in the middle. It just seems so fitting for this little boy.
Olive fingers. Both my kids love olives...
As we walk through this adoption process we have noticed a pattern. All three times we experienced more-than-normal spiritual warfare. You may personally not believe that we live in a world that has a war going on. We do, because we can see it, feel it. We have been praying like crazy for our kiddo. Anytime a child comes from darkness into the light, satan wants to stop it.
Here is a scripture that I love:
"Give us aid against the enemy, for the help of man is worthless.
With God we will gain the victory, and He will trample down our enemies." Psalm 60:11-12
Amen!

The Perryman's